Thank you for your encouraging comments – as always. I think just to be struggling with the issue is moving in the right direction. It’s when we think we have arrived that we’ve probably missed the boat.

You echo my thoughts and feelings, although I could not verbalise them that well.

I’m trying to change where I draw the line, but it’s hard to redefine the line when you have a family and need to convince them to redraw the line too!